In relationships. At work. With friends. Maintaining relationships with family. Everywhere. You are responsible for your happy. As you are the only one who can make you happy. You own the switch. The button. The lever. It’s all you. Liberating and exciting as that is. Which, in my opinion it is. It comes with a flip side called responsibility.

You see this ownership of your happy comes at a cost. And that cost is the ability to blame someone, anyone, else for you being unhappy. Every time, no excuses it all lies with you. Hmmm. Not as much fun. You see my favourite past time of all time was blaming Hubby for me not being happy.

It went a little like, it was him, his habits, the way he talked and those annoying habits. Of course I couldn’t be happy while he was being so god dam annoying. We were at the beginning of our relationship and I didn’t know it then but we were in trouble. And one day someone was talking and I was listening and they said;

Wherever you go, there you are.

I have since heard it applied to a number of things. But on this day, I heard, if I was unhappy with him, I would be unhappy with the next guy and the next guy and the next. That I was the problem. Or the source. That it was up to me to be happy. He couldn’t do it if he tried. And gosh, he was trying. I had to be my own happy.

And all of a sudden, he wasn’t so annoying anymore. Double bonus. So tell me. Where in your life could you do with being your own happy?!

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It is Twenty Twelve folks!

Can you believe how the time has just flown by? And it is time for Australia Day, Easter, and whatever crazy party comes in between! And we all know what that means. Parties, food, and alcohol galore for most people!

In all the hustle and bustle of getting ready, sometimes we overlook things, and safety can be one of them. So that is what I’m blogging about today, some food and alcohol safety tips that will help you end the night with a bang instead of a fizzle!

:: Know your limit! If you know that you will be gone in three drinks time (like yours truly), then don’t go past it! It’s a time to enjoy yourself, not to forget the whole night out! Drink water, soft drink, iced tea, mocktails if you feel left out. But staying within your inhibitions is the first step to keeping yourself safe.

:: Take small sips, not giant gulps! Think about this, if you gulp down a drink, can you remember what is tasted like? Take small sips, and choose quality over quantity. Savour the taste. I know I love the sweetness of a Mango Daquari!

:: Have a Designated Driver, a back up plan and respect those who do not wish to drink! Everyone should be able to have fun, because everyone has different ideas of fun!

And you should take as much care of your food as you do with yourself, especially when the weather starts to get warmer.

Now, being a chef, our kitchen has strict standards to temperatures of high risk foods, but with massive parties with massive spreads, this strict HACCAP style standards can’t be achieved at home or out and about. So it is important to know about high risk foods.

:: So if you’re bringing along any food containing meat, dairy, eggs, and especially seafood and chicken, then keep it cold! This means breaking out the eskies, the ice bricks and ice bags. Anything that is between 5 degrees and 60degrees Celsius has entered the ‘danger zone’, and should be consumed within at least 2 hours of being out of the fridge.

:: Also, keep raw food away from cooked food, they should be stored and carried separately, and if not, always store your raw food on the bottom of the esky. So it can’t leak by accident onto your cooked food!

:: And be mindful of allergies and food intolerances. If you are having a grand party, then be sure to send a shout out asking about these kind of things. There is no fun is having to call an ambulance because someone had a reaction to say, seafood! (Again, myself). Creating these dishes can be half the fun!

Just take a step back for a minute or two, and think with a little conmen sense, and you should have a headache day after! Or at least without a stomach ache!

Happy Partying Everyone! And keep yourself, and your food and drink safe!

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Hey WHL readers! It’s that time of year when everyone’s rounding up 2011 and heading into 2012 with full force! Here are my top 10 craft posts and tutorials of 2011:


1. Bow Tie Tutorial.

I love this little tutorial on how to make a bow tie for kids. It would be great for dress ups, or even just for adults who want a bow tie and don’t want to pay 50 bucks for one!


2. Decoupage Tutorial.

If you’ve never tried decoupaging furniture before, then this is a good place to start- decoupaging a small piece of furniture like a lazy susan.


3. The formula: How to price your wares correctly.

As an indie, hobbyist craft seller, I found this post really helpful, and it’s something that has totally changed my perspective on selling.


4. Everyday Creative Challenge.

This is a really simple project to add a little creativity to your day.


5. DIY Hair comb

Really simple, and can be changed up to suit a bunch of different colours and different patterns.


6. Help Book

Quite a cute idea for giving ideas on how you can be helped. :-)


7. Fruit birthday cake

I think you’d have to pretty crafty to make a cake like this! I love the idea of having a cake that really little kids can eat, and that won’t cause you too much worry as a parent!


8. 29 Ways to stay creative

A good reminder of 29 ways to stay creative. A cute little post. :-)


9. How to remove backgrounds from your photos

I really love Pugly Pixel tutorials. They’re mostly photoshop based, and they suit my design aesthetic and skill level really well.


10. Handmade gifts.

A helpful little reminder on how and why to appreciate handmade gifts (as well as what to do if you don’t like handmade gifts!).

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Things That Can Make Your Day

January 20, 2012

Sometimes days are just days – you go about your business without really engaging with the world, while other times life just goes ahead and delivers perfect little joyful moments, right into your lap. Here’s our list of things that make our day. Finding lost things Whether it’s twenty bucks in your wallet you didn’t [...]

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Fit, and You Know It

January 18, 2012

Are you like me and find it very hard to get, and stay motivated? Seriously, I can make a start at things, but give me a couple of months and my momentum is gone and my ability to get my act together and do what needs to be done had left the building, leaving me [...]

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